Connected Hearts Membership2026-03-12T14:18:21-07:00

Connected Hearts: A Community for Women Ready to Make Midlife More Fun, More Meaningful, and Fully Their Own

Genuine connection, personal expansion, pure joy.

What is Connected Hearts?

Connected Hearts is an intentional community designed for genuine connection, personal growth, and shared joy.

We refuse to accept midlife as a decline and believe this chapter is full of possibility – a time to reawaken parts of ourselves that slipped into the background beneath years of roles, expectations, and responsibility; a season to stretch ourselves, try new things, and create lives that feel good on the inside, not just look good from the outside.

The heart of Connected Hearts is our guided gatherings – experiences that blend engaging activities, deeper conversation, and moments that invite laughter, self-discovery, and fresh perspective in a space that feels nourishing and fun.

No politics. No religion. Phones put away.

Just presence – and space to be real.

We believe that becoming a better friend to ourselves is the foundation for happiness, and each month, we explore new ways to live that truth.

Our space feels safe, welcoming, and inclusive.

We see, encourage, inspire, and celebrate each other. And leave feeling lighter, more energized, and more like ourselves.

Together, we’re shaping a midlife (and beyond) that feels expansive, vibrant, and fully our own – through a shared journey of growth, connection, and friendship.

Two Ways to Experience Connected Hearts

Whether you live in North County San Diego or elsewhere, there are two different ways to experience the Connected Hearts community.

In-Person Gatherings in Carlsbad, CA

Join women from across coastal North County for thoughtfully facilitated gatherings that blend engaging activities, meaningful conversation, and personal growth in a warm, welcoming environment.

Start with a one-time guest experience

Connected Hearts Online Community

For women outside North County, Connected Hearts Online is a dedicated virtual community designed specifically for meaningful connection in an online space.

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Why Connected Hearts Matters in This Season of Life

Many women in midlife are carrying far more than anyone realizes. We’re navigating the shifts that come with midlife while also managing careers, relationships, aging parents, adult children, households, and the emotional weight of holding things together for everyone else.

And all that doing can have an unintended side effects:

  • Joy slips down the list,
  • Real connection slips down the list,
  • We slip down the list.

Even when we finally have a quiet moment, we’re often too drained to enjoy it.

Connected Hearts was created to change that.

It offers a consistent space where we can pause, reconnect with ourselves, and experience the kind of support we so often give to others.

A place to refill – not just unwind.

It’s where we rediscover our spark, feel inspired again, and remember that this chapter of life is still alive with possibility.

Who It’s For

Connected Hearts is for women who are:

  • Kind, open, and curious about what this next chapter of life can hold;

  • Self-aware, and willing to take responsibility for their inner experience while being part of a supportive community;

  • Craving friendships with depth;

  • Drawn to experiences that feel grounding, nourishing, and fun;

  • Interested in personal growth that feels relatable and down-to-earth;

  • Ready to prioritize their own well-being again;

In short:

Women who want midlife to feel expansive, joyful, and unmistakably Funderful.

A Look Inside The Connected Hearts Experience

While each gathering has its own theme, the experience follows a flow that helps you unwind, settle in, and fully enjoy the evening:

  • A Warm Welcome: Gentle openings that make it easy to arrive, relax, and feel at home.

  • A Centering Reset: A brief guided shift that helps you leave the day behind and become fully present.

  • An Inspiring Main Experience: The heart of our evening – a hands-on activity or facilitated group conversation designed to spark reflection, insight, and connection.

  • A Moment of Shared Joy: A playful element that brings the room together through laughter and lightness.

  • A Grounding Close: A heartfelt ending that leaves you feeling grounded, uplifted, and renewed.

Our consistent flow is the canvas; the changing monthly themes are the art. You always leave with something valuable – a new perspective, a practical tool, or simply a lighter heart.

The Warmth of Real Connection

What Women are Saying

The evenings are so thoughtfully run, and it’s easy to dive into open, honest conversation. I love being in community with these women and look forward to our many meet ups each month.

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Connected Hearts has reinforced for me that there is a community of healing support, friendship, and laughter out there if you open yourself up to it.

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Participating in Connected Hearts is like receiving a superhero cape. It makes me feel brave, but also wrapped in comfort and warmth.

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The membership offers a safe place for women to get together, make new friends, and share of themselves without fear. I have not experienced anything like this before.

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Common Questions

Why is Connected Hearts a membership instead of drop-in events?2026-03-11T23:35:27-07:00

Our goal is to create genuine connection and a true community — and that happens through consistent, shared experiences. A membership provides a foundation for those experiences to build on each other month after month. When the same circle of women shows up together, we create a collective history. That consistency builds a layer of trust and ease that simply can’t develop in drop-in events.

By moving beyond the “introduction phase” each time, we can skip surface-level small talk and create a familiar space where you can be yourself, share more openly, and build the kind of authentic friendships that actually last.

Membership also creates continuity between gatherings, allowing conversations, insights, and relationships to deepen over time rather than starting from scratch each month.

How is Connected Hearts different from a free social group?2026-03-11T23:48:59-07:00

While casual social groups can be fun, Connected Hearts is designed to offer a deeper, more intentional experience of connection.

A few things make it different:

  • Expertly Facilitated. Unlike casual meetups where conversation is left to chance, each gathering is thoughtfully designed and guided by Cheryl Dillon, whose background in psychology, coaching, and event planning allows her to create experiences where meaningful connection unfolds naturally.
  • A Blend of Fun & Personal Growth. Our gatherings combine engaging activities, meaningful conversation, and light self-reflection. The goal isn’t just socializing — it’s creating experiences that leave you feeling inspired, energized, and more connected to yourself and others. This dual focus on connection and personal growth is a hallmark of the Connected Hearts experience.
  • Simply Arrive & Enjoy. There’s nothing to organize, host, or coordinate. Every gathering is designed so you can simply arrive, relax, and enjoy the experience.
  • An Intentional Community. Women attend first as a guest so they can experience the environment before joining. This helps ensure the space remains welcoming, positive, and filled with women who genuinely value connection and growth.

In short, while many social groups connect people around a shared activity, Connected Hearts brings women together around a shared desire for meaningful connection and a joyful, fulfilling life.

Who is this NOT right for?2026-03-10T20:00:05-07:00

To maintain our focus on genuine connection and personal well-being, this community is not the right fit for:

  • Business Networking: While we celebrate each other’s successes, our primary goal is heart-centered connection. If your main objective is to pitch a product or build a lead list, this isn’t the space for you.
  • Surface-Level Only: Connected Hearts is designed for those who want to move past small talk. It may not be a fit if you aren’t comfortable exploring fresh perspectives or engaging in conversations with a bit more depth.
  • Divisive Topics: To ensure our space remains a sanctuary of peace and positivity, we do not discuss politics or other polarizing subjects. We are here to focus on what connects us, not what divides us.
What if I show up and feel awkward or like I don’t belong?2026-03-10T19:57:08-07:00

Many women attend their first gathering without knowing anyone in the room. That’s why Connected Hearts gatherings are intentionally facilitated rather than left to chance. Through thoughtfully designed activities and guided conversations, the evening unfolds in a way that naturally helps everyone feel included and comfortable participating at their own pace. You’re never put on the spot, and there’s no pressure to share more than you want to.

Most women tell us the same thing afterward: they arrived a little unsure… and immediately felt at ease.

Experience Our Community for Yourself

Reading about Connected Hearts is one thing.

Experiencing the warmth, laughter, and meaningful conversation is something entirely different.

Come discover the energy that emerges when women gather with openness, curiosity, and a shared desire for genuine connection.

Your seat is waiting.

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