The Rhythm of The Connected Hearts Experience
At the center of Connected Hearts is our signature monthly gathering in Carlsbad, where women come together for thoughtfully facilitated evenings that blend personal growth, genuine connection, and shared joy. Through meaningful conversation, engaging experiences, and moments of reflection, the evening creates space for insight, laughter, and the kind of connection that feels both uplifting and real.
But the Connected Hearts experience doesn’t stop when the evening ends – it’s designed to nurture connection and community throughout the month.
Between gatherings, members stay connected through mid-month virtual Connection Calls – a chance to pause, check in, and stay anchored in our intentions – as well as Connected Hearts “Unplugged” social meetups like beach walks, coffee chats, or local outings held simply for the joy of being together.
Together, these touchpoints create a natural rhythm of connection, reflection, and friendship that extends far beyond a single evening.
What Women are Saying
The evenings are so thoughtfully run, and it’s easy to dive into open, honest conversation. I love being in community with these women and look forward to our many meet ups each month.
Connect Hearts has reminded me of what I value in myself and in my friendships: authenticity, kindness, strength of character and persistence.
A fun, uplifting evening that left me with that special feeling that lingers after getting together with a group of great women for the kind of talking and laughing you do when you get together away from work, family, etc. You get to be the self that perhaps others don’t get to see out of the usual context.
The membership offers a safe place for women to get together, make new friends, and share of themselves without fear. I have not experienced anything like this before.
Start With a Gathering
Connected Hearts is a membership community, and we want you to feel fully at home before you commit.
That’s why we invite you to experience a signature gathering first.
It’s very common for women to attend their first gathering without knowing anyone – and most are surprised by how quickly they feel at ease.
Meet the women, immerse yourself in the evening’s theme, and feel the energy of the room firsthand.
If it feels like the right fit, you’ll be invited to join the membership and enjoy the full rhythm of connection – including our monthly gatherings, Connection Calls, and “Unplugged” social meetups.
No pressure.
No sales pitch.
Just an intentional evening designed to help you decide if this community feels like home.
- Monthly gatherings in Carlsbad
- Typically the first or second Tuesday of the month
Upcoming dates are shared on the registration page - 6:00 – 8:00 PM
- Exact location shared after registration
- Light snacks and non-alcoholic beverages are provided
FAQs
Our goal is to create genuine connection and a true community – and that happens through consistent, shared experiences.
A membership provides a foundation for these experiences to build on each other month after month. When the same circle of women shows up together, we create a collective history. This consistency builds a layer of trust and ease that you simply can’t get from a drop-in event.
By moving away from the “introduction phase” every time, we can bypass surface-level small talk and create a safe, familiar space where you can be yourself, share more openly, and build the kind of authentic friendships that actually last.
Membership also means you’re supported between our nights in Carlsbad. With our mid-month connection calls and ‘Unplugged’ casual meet-ups, you have a steady rhythm of contact that turns a ‘monthly outing’ into a true circle of belonging.
While casual social groups can be fun, Connected Hearts is designed to offer a deeper, more intentional experience of connection.
A few things make it different:
- Expertly Facilitated. Unlike casual meetups where conversation is left to chance, each gathering is thoughtfully designed and guided by Cheryl Dillon, whose background in psychology, coaching, and event planning allows her to create experiences where meaningful connection unfolds naturally.
- A Blend of Fun & Personal Growth. Our gatherings combine engaging activities, meaningful conversation, and light self-reflection. The goal isn’t just socializing — it’s creating experiences that leave you feeling inspired, energized, and more connected to yourself and others. This dual focus on connection and personal growth is a hallmark of the Connected Hearts experience.
- Simply Arrive & Enjoy. There’s nothing to organize, host, or coordinate. Every gathering is designed so you can simply arrive, relax, and enjoy the experience.
- An Intentional Community. Women attend first as a guest so they can experience the environment before joining. This helps ensure the space remains welcoming, positive, and filled with women who genuinely value connection and growth.
In short, while many social groups connect people around a shared activity, Connected Hearts brings women together around a shared desire for meaningful connection and a joyful, fulfilling life.
Our monthly themes are always fresh and relevant. Some are playful, others are deeply reflective, but all are designed to spark insightful conversation and personal growth.
Upcoming and past themes include:
- The Art of Saying No: Letting go of what no longer fits so you can make space for what does.
- The Confidence to Speak Up: Tools for finding your voice and communicating with clarity and grace.
- Befriending Your Changing Body: Style and self-care ideas that help you feel effortlessly fabulous from the inside out.
- The Power of Values: Navigating life’s transitions by staying aligned with what matters most to you.
- The Gift of Self-Compassion: Simple practices to silence your inner critic and boost your everyday joy.
- Navigating the “Sideswipe”: Strategies for handling life’s curveballs with confidence and ease.
- Redefining Your Next Chapter: Discovering new possibilities and shaping a midlife that is authentically yours.
While we share our full membership details and tiers (including 6-month and 12-month options) after you’ve experienced a gathering for yourself, you can expect the monthly investment to be comparable to the cost of a nice dinner out.
For that investment, you aren’t just getting one evening; you’re receiving a full month of connection, including our signature in-person gathering, mid-month virtual call, and casual socials. Our goal is to make this a sustainable, high-value, and joyful part of your self-care practice.
Yes. All members agree to our Connected Hearts Promise – a simple set of values that shape the kind of community we want to create together. It’s about being respectful, kind, and supportive; keeping our space non-judgmental; and making it easy for everyone to feel welcome. These shared commitments help ensure our gatherings stay positive, authentic, and meaningful for everyone.
