CH Midlife Community2026-04-30T14:15:09-07:00

You’re not sitting at home.

You’re out there – at book clubs, coffees, beach walks – and you’re around people. And yet somehow, you still haven’t found your people.

Making friends in midlife is harder than anyone admits.

Being busy and being truly connected are two very different things.

The problem usually isn’t you. It’s that most social situations aren’t designed for real friendship to actually take root. There’s no follow-through, no consistency, no one doing the work of bringing women together in a way that makes real connection not just possible, but inevitable.

So the moment passes, and that feeling of not quite belonging lingers.

It doesn’t have to stay that way.

What is Connected Hearts?

Connected Hearts is a community for women in midlife who want something real – genuine connection, fresh perspective, and a place where they can be themselves, feel seen, and truly belong.

At the heart of Connected Hearts are our guided gatherings – experiences that bring women together in a way that feels easy, meaningful, and enjoyable.

Everything is thoughtfully facilitated so you don’t have to wonder what to say or how to fit in. You simply show up – and step into something that feels welcoming, safe, and inclusive. No politics. No religion. Phones away. Just presence.

We believe that becoming a better friend to ourselves is the foundation for happiness, and each month, we explore simple ways to live that truth.

This is a space where women support, encourage, and celebrate one another – and leave feeling lighter, more energized, and more like themselves.

And the connection doesn’t end when the evening does. Through continued touchpoints and ongoing connection throughout the month, Connected Hearts becomes something you’re part of, not just something you attend.

It’s where you rediscover your spark, feel inspired again, and remember that this chapter of life is still alive with possibility. And where the friendships you’ve been hoping for finally have room to grow.

Start With One Evening

Gatherings are held one Tuesday evening per month from 6pm to 8pm in Carlsbad.

Our next gathering is May 5th.

One-Time Guest Experience: $60 Includes the full two-hour facilitated gathering, materials, and refreshments. If you choose to join our community afterwards, your guest experience fee will be applied.

Once you’re registered, you’ll receive a personal confirmation email with everything you need to know, including the specific location.

Come as you are. Leave feeling Funderful. No pressure, no pitch – just a warm evening to experience the community and decide if we’re your people. If it feels right, you’ll know.

Gatherings are intentionally kept small, so all reservations are final. Each woman is warmly welcomed as a guest for one gathering – a chance to experience the community before deciding if membership feels right.

Before my first gathering, I was a mix of excited, curious, and very nervous. I remember wondering if I’d feel out of place or regret coming, and I definitely had moments where I almost didn’t go.

But something in me still wanted to show up, and I’m really glad I did. Driving home, I felt calmer and more at ease than I did on the way there. I remember just feeling grateful I didn’t let my hesitation win.

Meg W., Carlsbad

 

I’ll be honest, I was nervous before my first gathering. I’d had some not-so-great experiences in other groups, and I wasn’t sure this would be any different. But I felt comfortable and safe almost immediately. I could just be myself.

What surprised me most was how honest the space feels. There’s a warmth and authenticity here that’s hard to find. I’m someone who takes time to ease in, and Connected Hearts has given me exactly that – a natural, genuine way to build real friendships without any pressure. I’m so grateful this community exists.

Brenda G., Escondido

Reserve Your Spot

Select your date, complete the form below, and we’ll take care of the rest.

Ready to Find Your People?

Come discover what happens when women gather with openness, curiosity, and a shared desire for something more real.

If part of you is curious and part of you is hesitant, let the curious part win.

Common Questions

What if I show up and feel awkward or like I don’t belong?2026-04-23T19:38:41-07:00

Many women attend their first gathering without knowing anyone in the room. That’s why Connected Hearts gatherings are intentionally facilitated rather than left to chance.

Through thoughtfully designed activities and guided conversations, the evening unfolds in a way that naturally helps everyone feel included and comfortable participating at their own pace. You’re never put on the spot, and there’s no pressure to share more than you’re comfortable with.

Most women tell us the same thing afterward: they arrived a little unsure… and immediately felt at ease.

Is this going to feel like a sales pitch?2026-04-23T19:37:37-07:00

Not at all. Attending as a guest is purely as an opportunity for you to experience the community firsthand and decide whether it feels right for you – without any obligation. There’s no presentation, no pitch, and no pressure to join. If membership feels right afterward, you’ll receive a personal invitation – but that conversation happens later, not during your gathering.

Can I come alone, or should I bring a friend?2026-04-23T19:39:26-07:00

Most women come alone – and are surprised by how quickly they feel at ease. The evening is designed so that everyone feels included and welcomed from the moment they walk in, regardless of whether they know anyone in the room. That said, if you’d like to bring a friend, she is welcome to register as a guest too.

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